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Creative Kids

September 2, 2026 By Diane Constantine

Creativity is a type of rational thinking called divergent thinking. Creative thinkers branch off from our ordinary linear thinking and offer multiple solutions or answers to a problem.

Inventors and scientists, along with artists and musicians are creative thinkers.

So what if you have a creative thinking child? What if your son is constantly coming in and trying to engage you in a discussion of an invention he wants to make? How do you respond to your daughter when she shows you her drawing of fashions she’d like to see for her classmates? It can be exhausting to listen to their detailed plans and hard to find enough wall space to post all their drawings.

Studies show children’s creativity tends to decrease with age. Our schools foster conventional thinking skills to find ‘correct’ solutions. Linear thinking is rewarded all through school even to university education. So if our kids are to develop their creativity, it will largely be outside the classroom.

But this is one trait you, as a parent, can really influence. You can help your child develop their creative thinking or you can stifle it and the world will lose out.

Parents can encourage creative thinking by valuing creativity at home. Watch TV shows that explore new ideas. Look for new ways to do ordinary tasks or rearrange your furniture from time-to-time. Seek new ideas for dinner or vacation destinations. Children pick up the family’s values.

Encourage self-expression. Plan for unstructured playtime and let your child explore both indoors and outdoors. Provide materials for them to experiment on their own. Limit screen time to allow for free thinking outside the box.

Spend time with your child reading together about whatever they are interested in. Take them to see how others do whatever it is they are thinking about. Ask open-ended and thought-provoking questions. Discuss ideas for solving problems they encounter and help them innovate and explore in new areas.

Fight your own tendency to do things by the book and for a ‘correct’ outcome. Let your child know it is OK to make mistakes. Teach them that even the greatest inventors tried and failed many times before they found what works.

Who know, you may just raise a child who will change the world!


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Filed Under: All Ages, Kid Tips Tagged With: creativity, mistakes, self-expression

Baby Expressions

August 30, 2026 By Diane Constantine

Have you been observing your baby or child to know them even better? Do you know how he/she reacts to tastes, smells, noise, smiles, hugs, strangers, and being alone? I’m sure you already kn0w the answers to many of these.

Some of these preferences are based in their personality and won’t change much throughout life. But others may change very often. What they liked yesterday, they may hate today. Their choice of toys and games they play with you changes very quickly too. So stay flexible and alert.

Though little babies do not understand your words, they do understand your tone. So, as you notice something about them, talk about it. Say things like, “I see you really like bananas today. Bananas are yummy.” Or “Ah, so you don’t want to play Peek-a-Boo right now. This Little Piggy is your favorite game today.” As you practice reflecting out loud what you are observing about your baby and child, you build bridges with them. They will feel more connected to you and your parent-child relationship strengthens.

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What is he trying to tell you?
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How asleep is she?

I have a fun exercise for you to try now. There are different levels of consciousness that you can observe even in little babies. Go to, States of Consciousness, with pictures of these levels of consciousness. Try to match the pictures with the descriptions. See how well you do. Then be aware of how your baby demonstrates these levels of consciousness. (Note: Both parents should try this!)

Then go to:  Baby Emotions. Since babies cannot tell you in words, it is important we can identify their facial expressions. See how well you do at recognizing these Baby Emotions. Be sure to tell your baby what you observe. They will learn the words for the emotions they feel as you continue to use the correct words. Of course, sometimes you will miss it entirely. That’s OK, keep practicing and you will get better at this non-verbal communication.

The Gottman Institute calls these exercises, building love maps. As we gain knowledge of each other and each of our children, we have a better ‘map’ to their heart. Do whatever you can, even in small ways, to build your understanding and create meaningful connections. It’s an idea with a great future investment.


For more articles on Parenting Together see:

  • Mom and Dad Together During Pregnancy.
  • If your baby is already born, you may want to go on to: How Important is Dad?

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Filed Under: All Ages, BBH, Resources, The Child-Ready Marriage Tagged With: awake, facial expressions, sleep

Newborn Girl

August 26, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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Transition and adjustments. In this time of transition while your baby adjusts to life outside the womb, you and your family are adjusting to life with a newborn. As in all times of transition, give each other a little more consideration and lots of encouragement.

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Filed Under: Month-by-Month Girl Tagged With: daddy, doctor visit, tummy time

3 Years Boy

August 26, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

Happy Birthday, Three-Year Old

Your son is three years old! Congratulations on completing the most challenging three years of parenting. Of course, there are lots of challenges ahead and your task of parenting is only really beginning. But because of your child’s growth and development over these last three years, he is more independent and has taken the first major steps to learning for himself.

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3 Years Girl

August 26, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

Happy Birthday, Three-Year Old

Your daughter is three years old! Congratulations on completing the most challenging three years of parenting. Of course, there are lots of challenges ahead and your task of parenting is only really beginning. But because of your child’s growth and development over these last three years, she is more independent and has taken the first major steps to learning for herself.

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Filed Under: Month-by-Month Girl Tagged With: imaginary friend

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