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Your Child's Journey

wisdom for the big steps little children take

Welcome to Your Child’s Journey

September 11, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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Please take a little time to look around at our collection of information about children from birth through early childhood. A good place to start is You’re Invited!

Take a look at First Steps Bulletins These monthly bulletins help you know what to expect each month from birth to 3 years. Many other resources are also available in Steps on the Way, Development, Resources, and Links here on Your Child’s Journey.

If you have ideas for expanded content, questions you’d like answered, or resources we could link to, please click: Comment

Filed Under: All Ages

Language Development

October 1, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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There are many resources on the internet to help with understanding your baby’s language development and ability to read. Here are some good materials from reliable sources. Follow the links to gain even more information on these topics.


Language Milestones

Mayo Clinic has some simple guidelines for language development.

For a checklist that you can use to evaluate your child’s language development go to: National Institute of Health

To better understand what is normal or average language development see: Kids Health


Strategies to Encourage Language Learning

The teacher’s voice was warm and caring as she soothed Katrina after a fall. Katrina, 9 months old, crying intensely, stopped and looked up at the teacher. The teacher continued comforting Katrina with calm words. The teacher then stopped and waited expectantly for Katrina to take a turn in the conversation. Katrina started babbling, as if telling the teacher all about the nasty fall. This communication exchange seemed emotionally satisfying to both Katrina and the teacher, as Katrina stopped crying, gave a big sigh, and began babbling excitedly.

The teacher in this example is using responsive language. She is empathic and waits for Katrina to take a turn in the conversation. We have identified a dozen strategies like those represented in the scenario with Katrina that parents and teachers use to support children learning to express themselves, to hear and understand language, and to become competent communicators.

1. Build Relationships—Be an Empathic Language Partner

When a person cares about another person, he or she usually wants to communicate with that person. An infant or toddler will want to communicate with you when she feels safe and cared for in loving ways. Infants and toddlers communicate when it is pleasant to communicate, when the affect or feeling of the communication is warm and loving, and when they understand that their communication attempts will get a response.

2. Respond and Take Turns—Be an Interactive Language Partner

Read the rest of this very applicable article at: Education.com


 Why Bi-linguals are Smarter

SPEAKING two languages rather than just one has obvious practical benefits in an increasingly globalized world. But in recent years, scientists have begun to show that the advantages of bilingualism are even more fundamental than being able to converse with a wider range of people. Being bilingual, it turns out, makes you smarter. It can have a profound effect on your brain, improving cognitive skills not related to language and even shielding against dementia in old age.

This view of bilingualism is remarkably different from the understanding of bilingualism through much of the 20th century. Researchers, educators and policy makers long considered a second language to be an interference, cognitively speaking, that hindered a child’s academic and intellectual development.

They were not wrong about the interference: there is ample evidence that in a bilingual’s brain both language systems are active even when he is using only one language, thus creating situations in which one system obstructs the other. But this interference, researchers are finding out, isn’t so much a handicap as a blessing in disguise. It forces the brain to resolve internal conflict, giving the mind a workout that strengthens its cognitive muscles.

To read more: Benefits of Bilingualism

The Brain-growing Magic of Foreign Languages


Stammering

Filed Under: All Ages Tagged With: bi-lingual, language, speech milestones, stammering

Reading

September 26, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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This is one of the most important and difficult skills your young child will undertake. You begin the process early with helping him learn to speak and reading out loud to him. Here are some good resources for helping your child learn to read.


Reading Aloud Everyday from Birth Onwards

There are great benefits to reading to your child every day. Reading Rockets

Why reading to your baby is so important, gives lots of reasons and ways to read to your baby and growing child.


Teaching Sight Words

A great way to teach sight words: Teach Sight Word


 Teaching Toddlers to Read

The mom of a 22 month old asked me recently what she should be doing to teach her child to read. Her daughter reads words that she has never been taught. She was saying, “Moot,” while pointing to an apple juice bottle. Her mom had never referred to it as anything other than apple juice, but the brand name was Mott. Is she reading and what should this mom do to teach her daughter?

Recently an infomercial aired in the US for Your Baby Can Read. It sounds like a great idea, but is it worth the money and time?

Researchers are agreed that the neural pathways necessary for decoding letters then mentally combining them to form words are not ready until around 5 years of age?

So, who is right and what is a parent to do?

Read more. . .Teaching Toddlers to Read


The Role of Memory in Reading Comprehension

Reading comprehension involves a variety of neuro-developmental functions, including attention, memory, language, and higher order cognition. In this post, we’re going to focus on the role of memory.

Memory:

While reading, we must hold important information and concepts in our minds. We must process words, sentences and paragraphs together in order to gain full meaning of what we’re reading. In addition, we must call up relevant information we already know. Memory is essential in helping us comprehend as we read, make associations between prior knowledge and new information, and remember that same information at a later time, such as during a test.

 


 How to Read with a Beginning Reader

Most beginning readers are inconsistent. Learn more about the characteristics of a beginning reader and simple techniques and tips to nurture your child’s skills and joy in reading.

Sometimes parents of beginning readers wonder if their child is on track with reading. They don’t understand why their child can’t read a word today they were able to read yesterday. They think their child reads too slowly. They grumble that their child only wants to read the same book over and over again.

Most beginning readers are inconsistent. They may know a word one day but not the next. They may read a particular word correctly on one page, but they have to stop and sound it out again on the next page. When you listen to a beginning reader, you hear short, choppy words with little attention to punctuation. Sometimes a new reader can tell you very little about what they just read.

At the beginning stage of reading, all of these reading behaviors are to be expected. Beginning readers are building their fluency. This means they’re working to make several skills, like matching a letter to a sound and decoding, more smooth, accurate and automatic. Without fluency, each word must be decoded, and that takes time and energy. This means that other reading behaviors like reading with expression and comprehension have less of a focus.

Learn more from: Reading Rockets

Filed Under: Preschooler, Toddler Tagged With: reading

Poop or No Poop

September 25, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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Since we have to clean it up, we are very aware of what kind of poop our baby is making. We see different colors, different amounts, different consistencies. Some of them really worry us. The explosive poop of breast fed babies or the days of no poop, what does it mean and what can we do about it? Here are some helpful suggestions:

Baby or toddler constipation

Try  Poop Goop– Two different concoctions to whiz up for your baby/toddler’s constipation

Long-term constipation – see When Your Child Just Can’t Go
To get the article in pdf – click here: When Your Child Just Can’t Go.


Breast-fed Baby’s Explosive Poop

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I know breast fed babies have different colored and often softer stools then formula babies. My baby’s stools are very soft with the majority liquid.  None of the seedy things the books and peds talk about seeing are present.  When he goes, it’s nothing short of explosive. When I say explosive, even if the diaper is new and dry, it comes out with such force (and noise) that very little is caught in the diaper and it gets very little saturated. The poop shoots out the sides and back to the point you can feel it hit you if you’re holding him. Both docs told me I just need to get used to the softer stools of nursing and I felt like they thought I was exaggerating.  Its been two weeks of what I would call liquid stools and I’m concerned about him being dehydrated or actually having something wrong. I called the nurse line today and talked to her about it and she said it sounded normal, but she’d be happy to bring in me to talk to another doc.  Am I crazy to feel like this is not normal?  We have gone through 5 blow out outfits since 5am, not counting spit up changes and its only 5pm.

Read answers from other moms 

Filed Under: Feeding, Newborn, Preschooler, Toddler Tagged With: poop

You Are Invited!

September 23, 2026 By Diane Constantine

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Youre Invited

All moms want to give their babies and children the best possible care. But research takes more time than you have.

First Steps is a helpful bulletin for moms with children from birth to 3 years. Each monthly bulletin will have the information you most need for that month of your baby’s development. These bulletins were carefully assembled from the best information available and compiled in a brief, readable style. They will help you learn the usual developmental mile markers for that month. Also, you will see what to expect next and the best ideas to help your baby get there. Other short articles of interest for parents with children that age are included.

Learn more about me and Your Child’s Journey at About.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Blessings!
Diane

Filed Under: Newborn, Preschooler, Toddler Tagged With: First Steps, Next Steps

Teaching Toddlers to Read

September 23, 2026 By Diane Constantine Leave a Comment

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The mom of a 22 month old asked me recently what she should be doing to teach her child to read. Her daughter reads words that she has never been taught. She was saying, “Moot,” while pointing to an apple juice bottle. Her mom had never referred to it as anything other than apple juice, but the brand name was Mott. Is she reading and what should this mom do to teach her daughter?

Recently an infomercial aired in the US for Your Baby Can Read. It sounds like a great idea, but is it worth the money and time?

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Filed Under: Toddler Tagged With: reading

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